Showing posts with label self control. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self control. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Never Too Late

sometimes,
we wake up only to find out that we cause disappointments to others and ourselves.
we regret, we wish to forget,
pressuring ourselves of how stupid we were
and
at some point we think we're hopeless

well, if we continue walking along that path, we might actually end up hopeless
when we do mistakes, errors and accidents its always for a reason
to learn, realize, repair and make life better. 
Can't see it yet? :)

we tumbled, we slipped and we fell head first few times;
and yet we survive.
We stood back up, at that point,  we are winners my dear. It was never about the fall but it had always been about if that fallen person has the guts to get up, brush up the dirt on their shoulder and still continue the walk- hearts high heads still screwed on right.
Realizing a mistake now and regret is much better than dying and never be able to 'realize' it was a mistakes, cos it would too late.

Yes,
what matters is that we got up & recovered with our heart still at its rightful place.

note:Niat salah, hidup tetap loser dunia mahupun akhirat

Sunday, September 18, 2011

remember

lesson to be learnt:
when you're in-charge, when you're responsible

you'll have to
cross some people
shout at them
swear(maybe)
push them where they don't want to
push some wrong buttons
be hated

but
always
remember to take sometime to tell them what they did well.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

What & If

WARNING: a rip off from "Letters To Juliet"

"... what and if are 2 words as non threatening as 2 words can be, but put them together side by side and they have the power to wound you for the rest of your life- What if. What if?" The Clip






EVERYONE SHOULD HAVE A 'WHAT IF' MOMENT
So yeah in life there are a lot of things going on- the good and  the bad always come hand in hand.
For every hardship, great things will emerge, for every 'too-good-to-be-true' is a risk to forget of what is true.

What I'm trying to put here, for every events of our life we  should always have a 'what if' moment before making a decision.
What if this is test? What if the rumors were true? What if I had just helped the old man?
What if God have bigger plans for us?


ANSWERING THE 'WHAT IF'
But don't stop there, get the answer... get the confirmation, for that is the whole purpose of a  'what if moment', having a 'what if' inside of you for an extended period of time will kill you-inside and quietly.

Hanging on a what if question is like hanging onto a rope which you don't know what is waiting at neither of its end, and instead of finding out, you drag it along with you everywhere, though sometimes forgotten, it will be a burden your knapsack from time to time almost haunting. Get an answer, every person has the right to get his/ her 'what if' answered.


So friends, family, acquaintances and strangers please always give it a moment and ask:
What If? & Get the answer :)

Note: In respect of anonymousity of visitors, i have used God instead of Allah.