The fate of a person, the family, the country, the world and the universe.

As important as the general elections are, two days after the historical event in Malaysia will be a turning point to this particular person. The main character of the great book, his own book. Life is a test, and there are always decisions to be made. Good or bad, right or wrong, there is no time for regret.

Life is the journey of baby sea turtles trying to survive the migration of 8000miles to the ocean. Left to fend for themselves as they go through obstacles on the beach and in the ocean. Many will face death before reaching destination, such is the rule of life.
A quote from a strong willed commander, (where she quoted it from Al-Baqarah verse:286)

"Allah does not charge a soul except [with that within] its capacity. It will have [the consequence of] what [good] it has gained, and it will bear [the consequence of] what [evil] it has earned".


To all young baby sea turtles who are preparing to exit the beach and into the ocean. Broken bones can be mended, Can broken hearts too? In specific where hearts broken before the time you find Mr. Right. Yes you can. I promise you, in 5, 6 more years if you look back you'll smile for the adventures you've encounter in your youth, at it's peak. For other exciting and challenging adventures will keep busy. All the bitterness will end when you conceive a child. For 9 to 10 months it will be painful and hard. But it is a war to end all wars. All the victories in your life is nothing compared to your firstborn child.

Broken hearts can be mended. It is possible and can be done.

But, you can never mend a mother's broken heart, and a man's broken ambition.

let go and choose a better one

Every so often we come a cross a moment where we ask ourselves, had we done the right choice? Was that a mistake?

I find myself coming across those moments too often that I am just tired of it. So really really tired of it that i realize  we are not suppose to regret nor criticize our past, instead its about making it a better decision now, as in right this moment. So what if its a mistake, so what if it was great choice, it is the past that you have 'been there, done that' and you cant go back and undo nor can you re-do. Its great to look back to remind ourselves but nothing more. Plus,you gotta admit some mistakes are necessary to make our lives more interesting  I mean we get wiser with time. - or not;totally a personal choice.

When things happen, its fate, never 'just a coincidence; it always has a reason or reasons, so let the past be your fate, and allow a better future to take place, make your fate happen as a result better reasons.

He broke your heart, so let it be. But do not let your future 'Mr.Right' go just because you had to go on wandering about your past- where did I go wrong, was I too emotional? Clingy?- STOP THAT. All that has already been decided by fate.

So you messed up at your last office, stop visiting them and reminisce how you could have done better. Make a better choice now, lookout for incoming tests!

In short, people make mistake, the difference is whether he or she is gonna just sit there and be sorry for him or herself or stand up and say, 'right this moment, better choices are happening!' and actually does it.