Monday, April 23, 2012

Berkat Makes The World Go Round





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A young man once set out to visit a great sage in the town of Mezritch. When he arrived, he asked where to find the man, and was shown to a tiny, decrepit shack at the edge of town. Inside, there was nothing but a broken-down bed and a table full of books, where an old man was studying.
    “Where does the sage live?” he asked the old man.The young man was puzzled.
    “It is I,’’ said the old man. “What is disturbing you so?”
    “I don’t understand. You are a great sage, with so many disciples that your name is known all across the country. It doesn’t seem fitting that you should be living in a room like this. You should be living in a palace.”
    “Where do you live?” the old man asked.
    “I live in a palace, a grand home with magnificent furnishings.”


The young man explained that he was a businessman, traveling twice a year to a large city to buy materials that he brought back and sold to local merchants. The sage asked him where he stayed when he was in the city.
      “I stay in a small room in a small hotel,” he answered.The sage inquires the young man,
     “If someone were to walk into that small room, might they not say,

     ‘Why are you, a wealthy businessman, living in such a small room?’ And you would say, ‘I am only on the road for a short time, so this is all I need. Come to my real home, and you will see that it is entirely different.’
“My friend, the same is here,” the old man continued. “I am also only on the road. This material world is just a road. In my home, too, it is very different. Come to my spiritual home, and you will see that I live in a palace.”

 
(Story taken from Mitzvot charity)

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Most people measure their accomplishments by their bank account. The bigger it is, the better they feel about themselves. Because we put so much energy into earning money, it represents the very energy of life as we see it. 


Some people feel that they and they alone are responsible for their success, that their intelligence and abilities made it so. This is the serious challenge of wealth to not be deceived by your own ego but to remember that it is Allah who gives us the power to become prosperous.

This is not to say that your success is not a result of your efforts. And you must do everything possible to ensure success, not just sit back and wait for money to come your way. But you must acknowledge that it is Allah’s blessing, and not your effort alone, that creates wealth. There is a saying that goes,

Air tidak membasahkan
 tetapi Allah yang
 membasahkan di sisi 
sebab air

Api tidak memanaskan
 tetapi Allah yang
 memanaskan di sisi 
sebab api

(sorry I  preached too long, I can't help it)


Is money a blessing or a curse? 

In my opinion it depends on the person. Honestly I am not good with money. Money talks but mine says 'spend me'. Ibu told me years ago that my brother will be more richer than me. She was right. Because I tend to have the sikap 'tak apelah' when I am spending on things and when someone borrows from me.


 I got that behavior from abah. He doesn't even care about money. Not that  he is reckless and financially illiterate. He teaches physics and most of his money was spent for his class and his students. Once I asked Abah about what will he get for wasting money on his students (I believe that students should print out their own lecture notes and give some money to their teachers instead, 'belanja minum').

He says that he will be very happy if his students understands what they learn from his class. And afterwards apply the knowledge and contribute to the community. That is his satisfaction. Someday I want to be like him. 


I will be tempted to 'belanja' my students just to make them go to my class (Abah did not do this to. It is just my own method of approaching students).

I guess with an ambition like this, I'll never be rich:/ 







Joke of this week (has nothing to do with this post, just random);

Most men are brainless, so you might have to try more than once to find a live one

Sunday, April 22, 2012

In all fairness

Sometimes we work really hard but get little and others work little but gets extra. Why? Not fair isn't it.

Well know what? Allah is fair and he has it all planned. Only we decide to look the other way.

We work to get RM5000 but paid RM1500, He will give back the balance of RM3500 with health, friends, family and many more.

You work worth RM1500 but paid RM6000 be sure He will have you claimed back of the RM 4500 through bad health, money wasting family, frequent need of equipment repair and many more.


Pak ali pandu teksi ke Serindit,
      ditengah jalan tejumpa biawak;
Kerja keras pulangnya sedikit,
       kerja senang pulangannya banyak.


Mak Leha menunggu tidak kenal erti penat,
       sambil itu tempahan baju dijahit;
Kerna peluh hidupnya sihat,
       akibat banyak rehat asyik-asyik sakit.

Kak Ros pagi ke petang mengemas,
      intai ke tingkap andai ada jejaka;
Hati yang ikhlas budi sentiasa terbalas,
      tipu muslihat akhirnya ke neraka.


Adik pulang dari sekolah berkayuh,
      nampak jiran sebelah genyit mata;
Jika susah jangan sesekali mengeluh,
       Allah itu adil pasti ada hikmahnya.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Thank you God.

Thank God, the planets don't revolve
In perfect circles round the sun.
But wander oval orbits
Far away in space.
 
Thank God, the axis of the Earth
Is turning tilted, like a top,
And wobbles as it spins.
 
Thank God, rivers never flow
In straight efficient lines
From the heights down to the sea,
But crash their way down mountainsides,
Fall over rocky cliffs,
And carve out twisting valleys where they run.
 
Thank God, Thank God, for all our days
 
And for every single creature
 
And each one's singular, quirky ways.
 
 
 
 
-taken from simple poems

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

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When you wake up,
clap your hands,
smile
and tell yourself it's gonna be a gonna be a great day...!

Don't Be Afraid To Be A Samaritan

When we do a deed for example, giving my seat to a lady. Honestly I am afraid to give away my seat even though I know deep in my heart it the right thing to do. What I am afraid is what people will say. They must assume that I my intentions were to flirt with the woman.

So most of the good things I want to do must be impromptu, never think of it. Just do it.
Another method is, when you want to do a good deed. Just think of the kindness boomerang. 

Keep in mind too, that there is also the unkindness boomerang. Because what you reap is what you sow. It applies in EVERY ACTION  in life.

The prophet himself said, when you want to do something good, or do the daily prayer, execute it ASAP. If you are tempted to do bad things. Find an excuse to delay the action, until the bad intention goes away.




Kindness Boomerang, Life vest (song; Matisyahu-One day)